Excuses! We all make them, but they are just the manifestation of the lies we tell ourselves. We sometimes make excuses not to take care of ourselves or show self-love. Why do we do this? We’re so busy caring for others that we often put ourselves last. We might say, “I just want to lose 10 pounds first,” or “I can’t really afford it right now.” I wrote this blog to bust these excuses and show you that you deserve self-love now, just as you are.
“I don’t have time for myself”
It’s so important to understand that we need to take care of ourselves mentally before we can handle taking care of everyone else. We know this already and it makes a lot of sense, but for most of us, it’s easier said than done. I am often the worst offender and I need a constant reminder to give myself some time and take a break. If you’re a mother of teenagers, like me, you know exactly what I mean and the struggle is real! Pardon my language, but if I didn’t find time for myself once in a while, I would seriously lose my shit!
This is why I love what I do and it’s so rewarding to provide the boudoir experience of self-love to women. It is the best gift you can give yourself to get all glammed up and pampered for a day and to see your beauty in a new and exciting way. You will be a better you for doing it!
“I need to lose some weight” / “I don’t fit society’s image of the right size.”
Join the club! Did you know that less than 5% of the population fits the “ideal” of the perfect body type? So, does that mean that the other 95+% of us are not worthy of self-love?! That makes me insane! I mean it when I say that you are beautiful right now. I’m all for healthy living and I think it’s a great goal to have, but it doesn’t make you less worthy right now if you’re not there yet. Prove it to yourself and do a boudoir shoot now, and then do another one to celebrate when you reach your goals. AND, I’ll let you in on a little secret…I know how to pose and light you in the most flattering ways. Don’t put yourself on hold. Life is too short.
“I don’t feel sexy or sensual anymore, so I shouldn’t do a boudoir shoot.”
Well, this is actually the very reason you should do a boudoir photoshoot. Sometimes we lose touch with our sensual side when life gets busy and we’re running around doing things for everyone else, but I promise you “she” is in there and it’s my job to show you. A boudoir experience will ignite a spark in you that you may not have felt for a long time.
Remember too that you don’t have to wear lingerie. There are many styling and glamour options sure to fit your personality. Schedule a consultation with me to discuss the best choices for you.
“A boudoir photoshoot is an investment and I don’t have the money now.”
Yes, it is an investment. It’s also an investment in your well-being and confidence. Beyond my session fee, which includes a pre-shoot consultation, styling, a makeover, the photoshoot and a reveal session, there is no obligation to purchase products and you only buy what you love. I believe you will want them all and if you do, I can offer you a payment plan that suits your budget and needs, but is all up to you!
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